How do you handle bullying?
Is it easier to just walk a way and tell everyone else what you wanted to say to them, or tell them in the moment then walk away?
A proven formula for confronting bullying without confrontation:
- State what you noticed them doing to you.
- Let them know how it makes you feel.
- Ask them why they are doing it.
In this way you are approaching the bully with concern instead of anger and you will be more likely to have a better outcome.
Anger is an expression of fear and will only create resistance.
Concern is a form of compassion and will help you be able to find resolution much faster.
Resistance or Resolution?
Victim or Victor?
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